Grieving

3.11

With so many people around me grieving, I thought I would share a different perspective.

My mom believed we choose our life paths before we are born to elevate the souls of those around us. We chose our trials and struggles so those around us can learn from our struggles, be better people. Be better souls.

And if we complete this life's purpose, we can move on to our next life's purpose, choose that life's path, choose the people we want to be with in that life to help them escalate their purpose. I believe this is why some people feel drawn to others. Those may be the people we chose to be in our lives either to help or learn from.

I believe I lost my mom way too soon because she was needed in her next life's purpose and she taught us all she could in this life. We all grew and gained so much by having her in our lives. We even learned from her struggles and early death.

When grief starts to take hold, I redirect my thoughts to what can I learn from this? How can this make me better and can I help others from what I've learned. Changing to this mindset helps me to move past the devestating grief into a path of purpose. I don't want my mom's death to have been a waste of her life I believe I owe her to have learned and help others.

I always think about if I could talk to her one more time and tell her how much I miss her and how angry I am for what happened to her, I know she would tell me not to be sad and not to be angry. I know she would tell me to find my happy and to help others. Even in her last days when she didn't know me and I went to high her goodbye, she'd see my tears and say, "don't cry sweetie".

I hope you can take the lessons from your grief and find your purpose.